You have been holding the deep pain of abuse for a very long time now, but you would want to know how to forgive your abuser and forget all the abuse they have put you through so that you move on, right?
And I am sure you would like to get the best way possible that will take you through the concept of forgiveness and help you heal and mend the broken pieces of your life the proper way, isn’t it?
Well, personally, I have had many occasions in life I felt extremely abused, so I assure you I understand you completely, and know how it feels to be in this situation.
And I will be walking you through a very helpful way I found and really loved which is very confidential and heals you emotional pain totally.
So let’s delve right into it.
My Personal Approach to Forgiveness
To start with, I am a very secretive person because life, through many experiences, has taught me to be that.
This being the case, I find it very hard to sit through counselling sessions or with a psychologist to tell them how I am being abused and what pain I am going through.
I just feel too ashamed to talk about it and at times I feel like the people you are telling might later expose you and cause you more harm, while others take it as if you were seeking emotional empathy.
These thoughts just convince me to stay away from external help and seek a way I can heal the pain by myself.
So, those past few months when I was looking for a discrete way to forgive people I felt were abusive, I stumbled upon a forgiveness training program which I found quite interesting, and which matched all my needs.
I will be telling you more about it in the next section.
My personal Best Forgiveness Training System
The program I was telling you about is referred to as The Choice of Forgiveness.
To me, it is the best system out there.
It simply helps you heal 3 main parts of your life, the mental, the emotional and the physical.
It is like a course that impacts you with knowledge and proper understanding of the virtue of forgiveness and then walks you through it from the start to the end, where you are completely healed.
What made me love it is that you can use it at home without having to vent to anyone about your life, which is key to me.
Also, it has 3 great units through which it approaches this issue and they are all very impacting and helpful.
They kind of make the whole training all rounded as far as forgiveness is concerned.
I also feel the system connects with you at a deeper level, tackling the most sensitive issues that you would dare not expose to anyone and help you through them as well.
It almost feels like talking to someone who reads your minds and provide answers for questions you have in mind, both the ones you would want to ask and those you’d feel ashamed to even mention.
I am sure you are going to feel the same when you get to use it.
How it Works
I really loved the way they broke down the units of forgiveness to address the various aspects of it like gaining the right understanding of this topic and knowing how to take the understanding and apply it in real life.
Also, they help you wash away the emotional trauma and baggage you have been carrying for years and couldn’t get any way to just drop it.
Getting more specific with this, there are 4 resources that help with all this.
The first is the book called “Letting Yourself off the Hook” which is meant to give you the knowledge and understanding of forgiveness.
It reveals to you things you knew but never quite got the way they worked, and things you have never even thought of, which are the probably reasons you still haven’t been able to forgive.
Because I don’t want to give away the deep details as that is against the rules, I would simply say that this book alone will change everything in your life.
The other resource, is another book called “The Transformational Exercises Workbook” which helps with applying the knowledge in your life.
It has a list of exercises that go hand in hand with the knowledge you have gained from the previous book. It has approaches you will find wise and insightful.
They will change your perspective and approach to your abuser, whether it’s your mother, or father, or both parents, your boyfriend, or even your husband.
Just about anyone.
Now to the coolest part. The emotional healing and mental strengthening.
The resource you get for mental strength to be able to forgive and let go completely is the Subliminal Invocation CD.
This CD has a good list of well thought out affirmations for forgiving that will be of good help in changing your subconscious mind and the way you have been taking this whole pain and bitterness.
It will give you the mental energy to release yourself from the chains of pain and move on. If you love subliminal messages, you are going to be hooked to this.
The last one is the emotional healing. And for this you get another CD called Guided Healing meditation.
This is for cleaning away all the bitterness and hurt that you still have with you. You just sit and follow through it in your mind.
Within a few minutes, you start noticing the calmness and peace that is slowly getting the better of you. By the time you are done with it, you feel very free and serene.
I find this best to use when you are about to meet up with the abuser and you know you will feel hate towards them, or when you think about them and this evil anger overwhelms you.
This will get you relaxed and help you avoid it before it builds up.
Cost and Discounts
The whole program goes for $247 which includes some 3 other wonderful bonuses which add to the overall value. To me, this was fair if you consider the value you will be getting off of the resources.
These guys who created it have put quite some effort in addressing the whole aspect.
I feel they have done the best they can because you won’t find other systems that is this comprehensive and valuable.
But they are also giving a discount for a limited time. The discount you get is $190 off the main price, meaning you will be getting it at only $57.
But since the discount has been there for very long time, the people behind it have announced that they will be returning the price back to $247 in a few days time.
How to Use the Choice of Forgiveness
This is the most effective way you should use it to see the greatest benefits:
• Read the book, “Letting Yourself off the Hook” for 15 minutes
• Read the “Transformational Exercises Workbook” and take a few exercises to start working on
• Listen to the subliminal invocation CD to get mental strength to put the exercises into practice
• Listen to the guided healing meditation CD when you feel weighed down by pain and bitterness
And that is all you have to do to see the change you want.
That is basically how you get to let go of the pain of abuse and grow stronger and free.
If you would love to get my help with the topic or the system itself, please don’t hesitate to ask it from me, I will be more than happy to help you out. 🙂