Why Men Love Bitches Book Review

I bet the title really caught your attention and you would want to know what exact Sherry Argov shares in this book, right? Well, I have to agree that it also caught mine and I felt a strong urge to know what the book is all about especially after being said that most of us men love “bitches”.

I can’t say that the book could be right or wrong, but it sure is interesting!

And in this Why men love bitches book review, I will be looking at the gist of the book, the kind of teaching it offers, other people’s opinions on the teachings and finally my opinion on it.

I believe you are going to love this, so grab a cup of coffee and let’s get right into it.

Name: Why Men Love Bitches
Author: Sherry Argov
Best Place to Buy: www.amazon.com
Genre: Self Help Book
Language: English
Publisher: Adams Media
Publication Date : October 1, 2002
Pages: 255

What It Is

So before I get personal with the book, I would like to give the perspective I got from the book in view of relationships. According to what I read and understood, the book encourages women to be strong and not too nice or they will be hurt in most of the relationships they get into.

The book stresses that a woman needs to stand up for herself oftenly and make her presence appreciated by the man. At the same time, she also needs to make a man feel like the head while having her way as well.

Ideally, Sherry strongly believes that a man needs to be respected and loved but a woman should also be respected and cared for, which I personally think is great.

The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:

Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?

Why do men take nice girls for granted?

Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?

And I will be looking deeply into these questions in the next section.

SHERRY ARGOV is the New York Times bestselling author of Why Men Marry Bitches and Why Men Love Bitches and has been featured on The Today Show, The View, MTV, The O’Reilly Factor, MSNBC and Fox News.

Her work has appeared in over 50 leading magazines including People, Cosmopolitan, Elle, Glamour, Modern Bride, Maxim , and Esquire . This only goes to prove that the book has a lot to offer you.

A first-class theater production abroad, her live play has topped Billboard charts for three consecutive years, and received critical acclaim. Sherry’s books are currently published throughout the world in over thirty languages.

What The Book Talks About
Bitch (noun): A woman who won’t bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else’s opinion – be it a man or anyone else in her life.

She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it’s just one person’s opinion; therefore, it’s of no real importance. She doesn’t try to live up to anyone else’s standards – only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.

Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.

That’s the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy.

If he isn’t trying to make you happy, then send him back from “whence” he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy and yes your emotional stability those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.

Live by your own rules Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else’s drum Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don’t get what you want.

Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself.He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.

Once you start laughing, you start healing.Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.

When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it’s the only kind of relationship worth having.

Men don’t respond to words. What they respond to is “no contact”. When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are. The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.

Relationship Principle 1
In romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn’t.

Many people lack the basic equipment to be in a relationship and there’s nothing you can do to change it. You can’t take a skunk and dip it in perfume and hope it becomes a puppy. Eventually, the perfume will wear off and you’ll still have a skunk on your hands.

Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.

You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn’t respect your opinion, he won’t respect you.

When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that’s when he won’t want to leave your side. When you are happy, you are sexy.

Relationship Principle 11
It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.

With a woman he’s crazy about, he’ll put in all the overtime in the world. He’ll be doing things for you, he’ll be considerate, he’ll want to please you, he’ll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most.

There’s nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or strugle a little bit to get.

He doesn’t marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.

If someone else doesn’t like your confidence, that’s their problem.
Why? You always come before they do, that’s why.

Success in love isn’t about looks, it’s about attitude. Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you.

Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, behave as though you trust him.
When a man likes you, he will be interested in finding out what you like. If he makes you happy, he feels more secure. Everything men do is intended to impress women.

Best Place to Buy The Book

The place I encourage you to get the book from is on Amazon. It is my personal favorite online store and it comes in handy when you want to do more shopping other than just the book. So if you were planning to buy more stuff online in addition to the book, I would say Amazon is your best bet.

There is also a summary book of this book that cuts across the book and gives you the gist and weighty points you would want to use to make change in your life.  It is also on Amazon and is something I recommend if you are those people who like having most moving points somewhere for constant reference.

My Thoughts
This book is a really worth while book to read especially for you ladies. It is so funny has great wit and some lessons in there, to boot.

For those of us who need to be reminded not to try so hard, some of the advice really resonates. Stop being doormats, ladies!

Conclusion

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as your questions.

I hope you found this review useful to you.

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