It is really hard to believe that your best friend could hurt you that much, right?
But even after all what they did, you still want to know how to forgive your best friend for your own peace’s sake and because you really value true friendship and loyalty, right?
Well, to start with, that is very noble of you. It is good that you want to get over the feud.
And for that, I will be taking you through a forgiveness training I came to love very much because of the creative and insightful value they offer to folks.
It is a freindly yet very effective training you are going to find quite useful and valuable.
Here we go.
First Off, A Handy Advice For You!
From my personal experience and witnessing of the fate that has befallen best of friends, I came to learn one thing.
And this lesson my mom has also confirmed to me a lot of times, that it is never any wise to have a best friend.
This doesn’t mean you don’t make friends, or keep yourself from enjoying a good time with them. No, have as many friends as you possibly can because you need them in your life.
But see that you have drawn your line very clearly from the start so that they know there is a boundary they should not cross, in terms of being intimate with you.
Have a friend for a certain reason, this one for this reason and who will help you do this, and that one for that reason, who will help you do that, as they won’t all be there to help you in the same way.
But ensure that you don’t have any friend who knows you too well, with regards to what you do every day, what you eat, what you wear, where you go, how your family is, basically literally everything about you.
I say this because the more a friend (in the name of a best friend) knows you, the more they will hurt you when the time comes.
And that time is sure to come!
Please be sure keep this good advice and live, if you fail to pay heed you will be hurt and you will remember these words and be twice as much bitter for not having taken them seriously.
My Most Loved Forgiveness Training
I had been hurt by my best friend numerous times before making a resolution never to have a best friend.
I also get hurt by friends many times, and the best forgiveness system I found most effective in washing away that bitterness and pain the hurt comes with is a training called The Choice of Forgiveness.
This home based training system is meant to help you overcome the hard heartedness that comes from being deeply hurt by someone you greatly value in your life, and not having the tiniest spot in your heart to forgive and forget.
What I liked most about it is the way they handle this subject very professionally and at the same time in a friendly and understanding way.
It is the most comprehensive and well detailed out system I have seen on this topic thus far, and am completely confident that you will note that too when you get to use it.
How it Works
Well, it approaches this subject in three ways. There is the theoretical knowledge part, the practical part and then the emotional one.
The theoretical knowledge section has been well addressed using a book called “Letting Yourself Off the Hook”.
It goes deep into forgiveness and impacts you with extremely vauable knowledge, insight and different perspectives that will give you a whole new look and idea about it that will astonish you.
It helps you know how to live inside of forgiveness because it reveals how deeply connected almost every aspect of our life s to it, which is a huge deal.
The practical part is also tackled using a book, called “The Transformational Exercises Workbook”. Just as the name hints, it is more hands on than theoretical like the previous one.
It shows you a number of useful exercises you should put into practice to help you grow more in forgiveness.
They add to the firmness and gentleness of your character, and mainly aim at becoming more forgiving every day.
Then, the last part is the emotional part, which I think the creators took much time in handling. This one has two resources to best serve the nature of the part of forgiveness being handled, emotions.
It comes with 2 CDs which are meant to increase the value of your emotional life positively and wisely. The first CD is the one for Subliminal Invocation.
It is meant to give you strength to let go of the immense hurt and bitterness of what was done to you. It works on your subconscious mind to help you change your thought process and perspective that only adds to the pain.
I love this because it powers you up to use the exercises you get from the practical book.
Then there is the second CD for guided healing meditation. It can be used by literally one as it is not based on any kind of beliefs but only for inner relief.
This one works best in cooling down your temper and pain when you have to meet the “best friend” or when you think about them.
See how well they have handled this topic? That’s why I tell you they are my personal best.
Cost and Current Discount
This whole system with the 4 resources goes for $247. And they usually add 3 more bonuses to get you completely immersed into this virtue.
The bonuses include books like “Why Forgive?”, “18 principles of happiness” and more.
The cost to me was pretty fair especially if you consider the huge amount of value you will taking from it.
And something good going on at the moment is the huge bonus they are giving on the system. They are letting you have the book at a $190 discount.
This means you will get it at only $57.
But I don’t how long the discount will be given.
The people who created say they will be removing the discount in a few days because it has been there for too long.
How to Use The Choice Of Forgiveness
Well, this is my favorite way of getting the most value off of this forgiveness training program:
• Read “Letting Yourself Off the Hook” for 15 minutes
• Learn a few exercises from “The Transformational Exercises Workbook” for 5 minutes.
• Get motivation and energy to put them into practice from the subliminal invocation CD.
• Whenever the heat of anger or heaviness of heart comes rushing in, wash it away with the guided healing meditation
And that is simply all you have to do to overcome this great affliction.
Sadly enough, this is where I take my long rest.
But if you have any bothering questions you would like to get my help with, always know you have a friend to ask. Just drop your question in the comments and I will be sure to get back to you the soonest.