It really pains you when you remember your abuser and the nasty things they did to you, right?
But you would like to learn how to forgive your abuser, whether husband, your childhood abuser, verbal and emotional abuser, or any other type, because you are ready and determined to let go of the bitterness and overcome the grudge you have held against them for that long while, isn’t it?
Well, that is really wise of you, and I will be taking you through a great way that will help you wipe the pain and bitterness slowly by slowly until it is all gone.
So let’s get to know how you burst that painful bubble.
First, My Hats Off To You!
Before we get into the whole forgiveness process, I would like to appreciate the effort and decision you have made to bury this deep agony in the world of forgetfulness.
It really hurts and it actually takes great strength and courage to be willing to go beyond it.
Most people prefer carrying the affliction to their grave which only adds to the distress and limits their happiness in the short life that has been given us.
But forgiveness will make you feel freer and more loosened up to enjoy life, you will be able to gain peace and have joy as well as good appetite to enjoy your food.
By the way, did you know that holding grudges makes you age faster?
Well, that is a story for another day. Remind me to tell you all about it one fine day.
I have suffered this painful situation myself, of not wanting to forgive someone because they really afflicted me, so I understand you very well.
And I will be disclosing the favorite home based system or rather a forgiveness course that I loved and found much value off of to overcome the pain, the struggle and the dark heart as far as the abuser and the abuse are concerned.
My Especially Liked Forgiveness Course
The system for forgiveness that I found most valuable and packed with insightful training and knowledge is called The Choice of Forgiveness.
It has the best resources that helps you handle the hurting from all angles and get you to heal completely.
I love the way it is intelligently designed to handle each aspect of forgiveness very well.
With every aspect, I mean the theoretical knowledge of it, practical aspect where you put the knowledge to practice and the emotional part that helps you melt off the bitterness and free your heart.
The part I loved the most about this whole program is the emotional aspect, I am an emotional guy so it is only obvious I feel more attached, although the quality of it is better than any other similar program on the web.
Ideally, the program has tackled each aspect of this topic very well and have really put in a lot of effort to see that you get most value from it.
And you will also see that when you get to use it yourself.
How it Works
Unlike most people or systems out there that only give you tips to survive any type of abuse, like learn to let go, learn to be happy, or other tips without showing you to do that, this one walks you through the entire process, from where you are to where you desire to be.
It shows you how to deal with emotional abuse and become strong enough to prevent it from happening next time.
And not by confronting the abuser, but by stopping it before it even happens through your mind and the exercises you will learn inside the program.
It uses 3 main approaches to deliver the training, and it really doesn’t feel like a training because it is very user friendly.
The 3 approaches are theoretical approach, practical approach and emotional approach.
Starting with the theoretical approach, you will be fed with deep knowledge and insight into this issue of true forgiveness.
You will learn to see it from different perspectives and get interesting facts about it that will literally amaze you, and show you how wrong you have probably been about the whole idea.
You will get all this good stuff in a book called “Letting Yourself off the Hook”. It packed with immense value and you will definitely love it.
Going to the practical approach, they have another book that helps you get hands on with the knowledge you have gathered of forgiveness.
It is called “Transformational Exercises Workbook” and it comes with a good number of exercises you should put into practice every so often to help you beat the pain little by little until you have conquered it completely.
The exercises are really fun and you also get to learn heaps of stuff you never imagined like how… No let me not give away all the good stuff.
And finally, there is the emotional approach. Here you get CDs instead of books. There are 2 CDs in this aspect that will help you with the pain you feel when you remember how you were hurt.
The first CDs is the subliminal messages that have deeply intense affirmations that will give you a hand with changing your subconscious mind in order to forgive easily.
This is what you listen to before you put the exercises into practice. It gives you mental energy and strength to do this and succeed.
The second CD, which is also the final resource, is the Guided meditation session for healing.
This will help you cool down the fit of rage or bitterness when you are about to meet the abuser or when you feel stirred up whenever you think of them.
The Cost and Discount
The whole system of the Choice of Forgiveness goes for $99. This includes the 2 books and 2 cds for the emotional part, as well as 3 more bonuses.
The bonuses are books going deeper into forgiveness, which are “Why Forgive”, “18 Rules of Happiness” and “Successful Manifesting”.
Frankly speaking, I personally feel like they have undervalued the resource because they have given extremely helpful concepts, knowledge and facts, not to mention the life changing exercises in the program.
Most of the information you get in it you won’t find it elsewhere, and it is very well tackled.
On top of that, they are giving a huge discount on the program. They let you get the whole of it for only $55, which means you receive almost 50% discount.
But they are a bit mean with this as they say the discount won’t be up for long because it has been there for too long.
In a few days, the prices will go back to normal.
How to Use The Choice of Forgiveness
This is how you get the most value from this resource. Please be sure to use it daily as I have outlined, that is the best way.
• Read the ” Letting Yourself off the Hook” book for 15 minutes
• Read the “Transformational Exercises Workbook” book for about 10 minutes and get a few exercises to put into practice
• Listen to the subliminal messages CD to gain strength and motivation to do it
• Then, you can always listen to the guided mediation during the weekends or when you feel very bitter or angry about the issue and when you feel it is very hard to forgive.
As you keep using it like that, you are going to note that you are growing softer and softer at heart and even happier.
And that is the simplest way to learn to forgive from deep within your heart.
If you have any burning questions with regards to this topic or the system itself, you can always shoot it right at me in the comments. I will be more than happy to help where I can. 🙂