You still have that scar of heart break hurting you like a fresh wound, right?
And you now wish to learn how to forgive someone who broke your heart deeply and intentionally so that you can heal the wound, mend things up and move on with life, isn’t it?
Well, deep hurt with intention can really be painful and you have all the right to be angry.
And for this reason, I have to thumb you up for choosing not to remain angry but solve things so that your life can continue peacefully.
I happen to know just the most suitable way to help you grow your level of forgiveness and be able to let go of the pain, and hate towards the person who broke your heart, either by leaving you, lying to you or anything else that broke your trust in them.
Let’s jump right into it and get over with this painful issue. 🙂
First Off, A Handy Word of Counsel!
If you are completely sure the person who heartbroke you did it intentionally, there is one good advice I would like to give you and ask you to hold on to for the whole of your lifetime.
And it is this…
If someone hurts you with full awareness, they need to be forgiven, as we all make mistakes. However, you should increase your carefulness with the person.
Make sure you don’t trust your heart to them unless they prove themselves again, and you very certain they are fit to be trusted again.
See, if they did it for the first time, they can do it for the second time, and the third, and the forth.
And this doesn’t mean they should not be forgiven for the first time so that they don’t hurt you the other following times.
No, you should forgive them but you also have to be very careful with them. Don’t put much of your hopes in them, or entrust them with anything you know and feel is super sensitive.
This way, you will have done the right thing by forgiving them, and still protected yourself for the next opportunity they would feel tempted to pull the same stunt.
After that worthwhile advice, I would like to head straight to my personal approach to forgiveness. Shall we?
My Favorite Way of Learning to Forgive People
While there are many tips and quotes out there telling you what you should do to forgive those who have hurt you, I find it hard to put them all into practice to help grow in forgiveness and keep this virtue up for years to come.
These tips provide you with temporary joy, not a long term solution which I bet is what you are looking for.
So I prefer working with something that is more comprehensive and progressive in that, it helps you learn about forgiveness, put the concept into practice, and be able to heal the heart pains that this heart break comes with, each day.
And the best system I found to help best with this topic according to the factors I have mentioned is one called the Choice of Forgiveness.
It is more like a home based forgiveness training course that helps you learn the art of forgiveness, gives you workable exercises to use to grow in this aspect.
It helps with forgiving any kind of issues, love related, abuse from people, childhood issues and many more.
The best part is, it even gives you emotional healing resources to melt the pain away and help you keep the peace.
Personally, I love it because it connects with you and your situation, in a very profound way that you feel like you are talking to someone who completely understands you and your situation.
More to that, I like how comprehensive it really is with regards to the knowledge it gives, the way it gets hands on with the exercises, and the effective emotional healing it gives.
How it Works
As I had earlier mentioned, it has 3 most essential things it handles in forgiveness, the knowledge and insight, the exercises to use and healing your heart pains.
Beginning with the knowledge and insight, there is this book the system offers called “Letting Yourself Off the Hook” that gives the proper understanding of this subject.
It delves into different areas of the art of forgiveness and gives really deep knowledge you had never thought of which opens you eyes to life in a new different way.
It takes you through a number of perspectives that makes you easily start letting the pain go, slowly by slowly. The insight you will learn here will really amaze you.
When it comes to the exercises, there is also another wonderful book called “The Transformational Exercises Workbook” which gives you what I like to call, the forgiveness workouts.
Here, you get to have a number of exercises that show you how to overcome the grudge without leaving any slight bit of bitterness behind.
The exercises also keep your heart at peace even in hurtful situations that might come to you from other people who don’t get you, as you try to overcome the trauma.
They are the practical application of the knowledge you get in the first book.
Then there is the emotional healing part. My personal favorite.
Here, there are 2 resources that helps with inner healing, and don’t worry they are not more books. They are CD’s.
The first CD is called the Subliminal Healing Invocation. This one helps to change your mindset, your beliefs and self made concepts of forgiveness.
It works on your subconscious mind, where all these beliefs are stored.
It gives you positive messages that improve your mind and make it strong enough to move one with life, you will love the experience with it.
I prefer using it when wanting to put the exercises into practice.
The second CD is known as “Guided Healing Meditation“. This one works directly on your heart.
Listening through this CD helps you release all the emotional baggage fast and nicely in a way you are going to find interesting.
It will help you heal the pain and overcome it completely. You can even listen to it when you feel the fit of rage and hate boiling within you when you are about to meet the person who hurt you or think about them.
It puts you to the state of calmness and peacefulness very quickly.
Cost and the Current DISCOUNTS!
The whole Choice of Forgiveness system that includes the 2 books of knowledge and exercises, together with the 2 CDs for emotional healing usually go for $247.
To me, I find the cost quite fair if you consider the whole value and healing you will get from it.
Again, something I discovered is that it is very hard to find something that is of high quality like this program which is free or cheap, that I why I chose this one for the best results.
But, I researched and found out that they are giving a huge discount for this system for a limited time, a $190 discount.
This simply means that you can get your copy for just $57. This is very considerate of them. Although, the discount is limited to a few days.
So it would be best if you took action on it soon.
How to Use The Choice of Forgiveness
Well, this is easiest part. First, you use it at home, so there is no commuting or sitting through the awkward moments with the counsellor or psychologist.
Second, you only spend a few minutes, like 30 minutes per day, to use it. And here is how you use it:
• Read “Letting Yourself off the Hook” for 15 minutes
• Try to think through what you read and understand it
• Read the “Transformational Exercises Workbook” and get a few exercises to use, according to your convenience
• After you have taken them, listen to the “subliminal invocation” CD to give you mental strength and motivation to put them into practice
• Then, before you sleep or go to work, listen to the “Guided Healing Meditation” to keep you at ease. You can also use it when you are about to meet the person who hurt you, if you will feel angry with them.
You should use the system on a daily basis until you feel you are completely well, no hate, bitterness, grudge or any related feeling.
That is all you do to see results with it!
And that is how you are able to forgive anyone who has really made you feel hurt.
If you have any kind of questions related to this topic, feel free to shoot them right to me in the comments below. I will be very happy to help you out. 🙂